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| Annuncio: As a new employee of a large studio |
| Inviato: Mims @ Mar Dic 03, 07:49:02 |
As a new employee of a large studio , I was afforded several one time perks. The boss took me out to lunch at a nice restaurant, some of my previous attempts at portrait photography were allowed to occupy a small corner of the display window and I was permitted to print one negative of my own in their custom lab.
The picture I chose was a photograph of King Ludwig's castle I took while on a trip through Austria. This is the famous castle Walt Disney used as a model for his Disneyland Castle. The print came out beautiful and I mounted, textured and sprayed it with clear lacquer. I planned to enter it into a photography contest as soon as I had enough to satisfy the rules.
A couple of weeks later, a rumpled-looking gentleman entered the studio and asked if I had any pictures of an Austrian castle for sale. I was puzzled as to how he knew that I owned such a picture since I had not shown it to anyone and certainly not to this person. I invited him to sit down so I could hear the rest of the story. He told me that he had just come from the hospital where his Dad was dying. In a moment of clarity, his father asked his son to bring him a picture of the Austrian Castle of King Ludwig , his memory of the famous castle rose in the mists of the Austrian mountains not far from where he grew up. Not wanting to refuse his father's last wish, he searched the local galleries with no success. He said that he would pay any amount to please his father.
I quickly went through my basket of samples and found the picture of Ludwig's Castle. The owner told him that the regular price of this large wall picture was $250.00 but he could have it for $100.00 and she would also frame it for no charge. The man was amazed and ecstatic at this stroke of luck. He had little hope of finding the exact item that his dear father wished, but felt he had to keep trying until the end. After he left, the owner turned to me and gave me $50.00, half of her surprise sale , saying, "Your talent for photography was what made the sale." This early experience figured importantly in my confidence as a beginning photographer.
Mommy (Daddy), Why do those people want to hurt everyone?
Last week, the world was shaken by another terrorist attack. Hot on the heels of the Live 8 benefits and in the middle of the G8 Summit, bombs exploded in London. Adults around the globe were glued to CNN and spent time discussing their feelings about the event around the water cooler at work , with their partners at home or in online discussion groups and e-mails. Collectively, we reached out and were comforted and reassured by the words of Prime Minister Tony Blair and other world leaders.
Many adults, however, do not realize how many kids are exposed to the same news. Older children may read the newspaper or watch the news on TV. Others may be exposed to "breaking news" during an interruption in their favorite cartoon t.v. program and still others can easily stumble across the information online via MSN, Yahoo , Google or any of the other online portals. While adults were declaring their solidarity in the War On Terror last week, many children's anxieties and fears were being overlooked.
In our efforts to protect our children and preserve the innocence of childhood as long as possible, we attempt to shield them from the atrocities that occur in today's turbulent times. When events such as the bombs in London, the events at the elementary school in Belsan, Russia in September , 2004 and the September 11th attacks on the World Trade Center occur, our natural instinct is to not discuss the events of the day with our children. Yet, as news of terrorist attacks or other tragedies surround them, your children may be feeling frightened, anxious , sad and confused.
As a parent, only you can decide what news is appropriate for your children but do not assume that your child does not have an awareness of the tragic events that have a global impact. It's important to talk to your children about the actions that shape our lives but the amount of information you share with your child differs across age groups and even from child to child.
The best way to make sure kids know they are safe, is to talk with them about what they see and hear and give them a chance to express their feelings.
Parents with children reacting to the news should:
? Know all the facts: Parents should help their children cope with the attacks first by finding out how much they know about what happened.
? Know yourself: Try to be aware of your own anxieties in order to know your child's.
? Know your child: Children may not have the verbal capacity to discuss their anxieties. Watch for new behavioralphysical manifestations of their fears. For example, your child may reveal hisher anxiety by not wanting to separate to go to school or camp.
? Reduce media exposure: It's important to filter the information that your child receives so that you can control the intensity of the reaction, instill in your child your sense of values and moral principles , and keep the lines of communication open and let them ask questions.
? Build a plan: Children, no matter their age, are primarily concerned with safety "Am I safe? Is my family safe?" To allay their fears, work with your child to create a safety plan.
Remember: World disasters are scary for adults and children alike. Always reach for more assistance when unsure of your next step.
Dr. Charles Sophy currently serves as Medical Director for the Los Angeles County Department of Children and Family Services (DCFS), which is responsible for the health , safety and welfare of nearly 40,000 foster children. He also has a private psychiatry practice in Beverly Hills, California. Dr. Sophy has lectured extensively and is an Associate Clinical Professor of Psychiatry at the University of California Los Angele.
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